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Sunday, December 19, 2010

A Very Crafty Christmas

My family decided to make gifts for everyone this year instead of buying.  Great idea, right?  You save money, and people end up with gifts that took time, thought, and effort and will be cherished forever!  

The Fitzgerald house has seemed anything but jolly this weekend as we teamed up to make each other's gifts.  First off, being crafty actually does cost money, almost just as much as buying a gift.  Secondly, the craft never looks half as good as the picture.  And thirdly, Izaiah.  Enough said.

Moral of the story:  Some people are meant to make gifts, and some people are meant to buy them!!!

The one success of the weekend was actually mine, the most uncrafty person ever, and check them out!


They are Rice Krispie Treats with sprinkles and Rolo's!  These aren't actually the ones I made, but the ones I copied from the picture.  I was too lazy to take pictures of my own, but I swear mine look just like these!

Merry Christmas, our wonderful friends!  May the season fill you all with joy, love, and peace!

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Catching Up

DeAndre moved in with us in September!!!! He is such a joy. We love him being here. Love is quite the understatement.  He and Izaiah have a bond that cannot be described.  I found myself loving DeAndre with such an intensity that it was shocking.  I think it is called motherhood.  The moment I saw him for the first time, I was so taken aback with just how much I loved him.  It was as if my heart, without my mind's knowledge, finally found something it had been searching and searching for. 

DeAndre has been visiting with his father about once a week.  The goal is for him to move in with him eventually.  Please pray about that, that that will only happen if it is what is best for Dre.  Please also pray for me; that I will stop being a basketcase about it.

Izaiah's other set of grandparents recently decided they would like to have a relationship with him, so we are very happy about that.  Izaiah loves them so much, which I think has been sort of the redeeming quality of the whole situation. 

Our back wall of our house finally collapsed.  Insurance said they will not pay for it.  We were able to get part of it fixed, but will probably be in debt the rest of our lives.  Ha!  I wish I could laugh at this situation already.

Still looking for a church.  It's frustrating to feel like you're at church at the Gap, or at a funeral, or a political pep rally.  I don't get organized religion.  The most horrible people I have ever known or known of have been big participants in it.  It's a struggle trying to teach the boys about Jesus while still protecting them from church people.  If you are a church person, please understand that I don't mean to be offensive.  If your actions are in line with your beliefs, you love Jesus, and are humble, kind, and loving then I am obviously not talking about you.

We are adjusting to Mark being a stay-at-home Dad.  We love it most days!  It is definitely a sacrifice, but our family couldn't function without one of us being home.  An organization bought some gifts for the boys and gave us a laundry basket full of cookies, toilet paper, paper towels, trash bags, etc.  I cried at the thoughtfulness of such a simple gift.  It's a good lesson to be the recipient of "charity".  Definitely humbling.  Definitely restores some of your faith in mankind. 

I am loving my work, as usual.  I love how hard it is, and how much it challenges me.  I love my clients and all the ways they teach me.  As stressful as it is, I never have a dull day!

Izaiah is doing great in Kindergarten!  It is so cool to watch him want to do homework and sing little songs he learned.  He is so precious.  Dre and I ran into Izaiah's siblings' father at the mall.  Wow.  We found out they live very close, so we all went over the next day.  It was soooo great to reunite the kids, but that might be something we will deal with later. Sorry I haven't posted in forever.  Here are pictures from the last 5 months. 


 Don't be fooled....


 This is much more typical :)





 Izaiah and Aunt Hannah on a date


 Izaiah and his brother, Dominic


 Izaiah and his sister, Sierra


 Meeting Baby Morgan for the first time!


 Aniyah wasn't thrilled about sharing her stroller at the zoo.  Who can blame her?


 My amazing friend, Shanana :)


 Beautiful Shana and her amazing wedding dress!


 The boys - and Ezra- on Halloween


 Aniyah thought Dre looked funny


 We love each other and our crazy life!


My precious boys

Sunday, August 29, 2010

A Fresh Start

Izaiah started back to school!  He had a great summer at Karate Camp working on his karate, tumbling, Hip Hop, and Zumba.  I need to post a video.

 My little Ninja

We decided to have Izaiah repeat Kindergarten since last year was soooo crazy and he struggled so much.  His new teacher is Ms. Heaney, and we love her so far!  Izaiah has been doing soooooo well, and has brought home smiley faces every day! :)  There seems to be a lot more structure and consistency, not to mention I think he is surrounded by better attitudes during the day.  We also have a new principal this year.  We will definitely miss Ms. Krekeler, but we are hopeful that Ms. Wuch will be great, too.     
With the seemingly dark cloud of drama following us, Mark and I decided that it is just physically impossible to both have full time jobs.  His boss was very demanding and his job stopped being one in which he felt appreciated and respected by upper management.  Life just kept piling up, as did the stress level.  Finally, we made the decision for Mark to be a stay-at-home Dad.  This is what he has always dreamed of.  Not real sure how we are going to make this work, but we believe it is an investment in our family.  Now we can spend weekends together, not frantically trying to get the house clean, lawn and garden tended to, laundry done, and errands run.  It no longer feels like such a rat race.

Turned out to be a very good thing, as Izaiah's school nurse again refuses to give him his medicine.  AGGHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!  So Mark has been going up to school at 2:30 to give it to him.  We are trying to figure out what is next for our family.  So much, so much.  New state, new kids, new career, foster care?  We're open to it all and are currently taking suggestions.

 Leaving for the first day of Kindergarten (Take 2...)

 My two boys.  
I love them :)

BRANSON

To be clear, there is not much in this post about actual Branson itself.  Rather, what happened during the week we were supposed to be in Branson.  Here are the chain of events.

Wednesday morning we awoke to leave for Branson.  About the time we woke up, a woman was found dead right behind our back fence.  Helicopters and police cars were everywhere.  They ruled it a homicide.  DeAndre had been sleeping in Hannah's room, with a view of everything.  Thank God he slept through it all and didn't see anything.

Did we know her?
Was she taking a morning jog?
Was she leaving for work?
Do they have a suspect?
How did she die?

These were all questions we did not get answered before we left later that morning.

We got to Branson, and it was Mark, Izaiah, DeAndre, and me plus my parents and siblings.  Our condo was awesome!  We tried to relax for the next 24 hours.  Then our next door neighbor called to tell us our house was broken into and trashed.

Great.

So early the next morning, off Mark and I went to go deal with that mess.  Not only did they take TONS of stuff, but they also trashed the place.  They cut things up with our butcher knives, and they took our food out of the fridge and freezer and left it all over the place.  Thankfully they did not take Ezra.  She watched the whole thing from her kennel.  Also to be thankful for, our neighbor caught them in the middle of looting, so they didn't get to take everything they planned to, one of which I am sure would have been the puppy.  We took Ezra to a co-worker's house and tried to clean and work things out with the insurance company and police.  Details details.

The next morning, back to Branson we went.  We were so tired.  The next day we came home to our pillaged house.  They took our TV, DVD player, Computer, several game systems, toaster, smoothie maker, can opener (?), cash, all our car, house, and work keys (including all spares), and even our alarm remote and code.  We couldn't get into Mark's car, and had to have it towed to get a new key made.  Not quite the vacation we were needing.  We are learning over and over that material things do not matter.  People matter.  Love matters.  Goodness matters.  Kindness matters. We are still figuring out the things that the thieves took.  If it is taking us weeks to figure out what they stole, then my view is that we had wayyyy more than we needed anyways.  We are sosososo very blessed. The autopsy report showed that the woman found dead died of a drug overdose.  Still very sad, but definitely reassuring that there is not some crazed killer roaming our neighborhood.  Oh life!  Why are you so stressful?!
 Eating yummy sundae's at our family friend's restaurant, Mel's Hard Luck Diner
Thanks Mel!
Of course we stopped at St. James Winery on the way back from dealing with our ransacked house.  A little stress relief in the form of Red Velvet Goodness!  Mmmm!

 We're a grumpy family when we have to wait 45 for a table
(Please take notice of my mother's hair! ha!)

Izaiah LOVES his baby Aniyah :)

Keith came for a visit and bonded with Izaiah


And for your random picture of the day, yes, I was really holding this tarantula.  I kissed it, too.




Ezra

We decided to get a puppy.  I wanted something little and foo-foo, but Mark wanted something big and burly.  I decided that this was not a fight that I cared to win, so off we went to look for our large new family member.  We went to so many PetSmart's, clinics, and places we found on Craigslist.  Mark finally found the one he wanted.  She was a little white pitbull with a brown patch and blue eyes.  He fell in love right away.  I, of course, protested that pitbulls are mean and nasty.  Then again, I know very little about dogs, and was told I was wrong by just about every animal-loving person we encountered.  Mark was like a giddy little girl when he left to go get his 8 week old puppy.

He named her Ezra.  He thought he was naming her after a girl in the Bible.  Someone needs to read up.

Ezra became Mark and Izaiah's BFF right away.  She was the best little puppy and loved to snuggle.
 Our sweet next door neighbor, Maya.  She loves Ezra :)

One day, DeAndre and I were staying home for the day, and Mark left for work.  He let Ezra out in the backyard, knowing that we would soon wake up and let her back in.  When I woke up, she was gone.  We assumed she had gotten out of the fence somehow.  We posted fliers all over the neighborhood.  150 to be exact.  The next morning, all but two signs were taken down.  Mark was devastated.  Was our puppy stolen?

A neighbor with surveillance cameras offered to try to catch the people who were tearing down the signs, so we placed fliers all around his house.  Sure enough, two different men came by, trying to sneakily tear down the signs.  We caught their faces and car on camera, but no license plate number.

Then Mark received a phone call from "S".  "S" said he had our puppy, and if we wanted her back, we needed to pay him and his partner $200.  They asked Mark to meet them right away, and gave him an address not far from where we live.  Before I could stop him, off Mark went to rescue little Ezra.  When he got to the address, they said that they needed the money before they would give her back.  They claimed that they bought her off of a breeder and wanted their money back.  Mark didn't have the money yet, so they called and called, badgering him to come up with it.  The police got involved and planned a little sting.

In the meantime, "S"s girlfriend called and told Mark that Ezra kept biting her child and she wanted Ezra gone immediately.  We assumed that S and his partner had her call to put pressure on us.  Finally, a week after she disappeared, the police devised a plan.  The girlfriend called and said to come get Ezra.  She gave him a different address, as well as her cell phone and home phone number.  As soon as Mark left, S called and was a little upset to learn that his girlfriend had been calling Mark.  I guess she REALLY wanted to get rid of Ezra.  Mark arranged to meet S at a gas station to make the exchange.  Undercover cops waited and watched from nearby.  S told Mark inside the gas station that once he had the money, he would have his partner bring Ezra to the gas station.  Mark declined.  S got upset.  Cops busted in, cuffed S.  S finally cracked after half an hour in the back of the blazing hot squad car.  Cops went and rescued Ezra, and back home she came!


I'm sure I don't need to tell you how relieved we all were.  It appeared that they did not feed her much, and she had lots of scrapes under her belly.  Once she got home, she slept for forever, and it took a few days for her to return to her sweet, energetic self. 

A little word to the thieves who thought they could actually get away with their little dognapping:

         "You are so dumb.  You're really dumb, for real!"  Ten points if you can name that quote.

Moral of the story, kids, is DON'T LEAVE YOUR PITBULL IN THE BACKYARD IN SOUTH CITY!  Apparently pitbulls make good fighting dogs (who knew) who in turn make lots of money.

WELCOME BACK EZRA!!!!!!!!!
 This looks really uncomfortable but they slept this way for hours!

DeAndre

Whew!  Our lives have been so crazy and stressful lately, hence the blog hiatus.  We are currently trying to get a 14 year old boy in our custody.  His name is DeAndre and it was love at first sight.  Izaiah has a past connection to him and their bond is more than precious.  DeAndre has been spending weekends with us for several months now.  We are praying that he goes wherever is best for him.  He went on vacation with us to Branson and now the whole fam is in love with him too!  He is so amazing.

 Izaiah's 6th Birthday!

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Run and tell THAT, homeboy!



Antoine Dodson is my hero. BEST. VIDEO. EVER.


....And don't forget the remix!

Friday, July 2, 2010

Bliss


Before they left for the Lynard Skynard concert


Happy 6th Birthday, Izaiah Candor!


My dad and neice, Anyiah


Good lookin crew



Who's a Mama G's boy?


Grandma and Grandpa with Izaiah


I'll bet you can't guess who made this.
P.S. His name is not spelled like this anymore.

Without Further Ado...


Introducing Izaiah Candor Fitzgerald!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Adoption Day was June 25th, the day before his 6th birthday. Everything was amazing! My family was here, Mark's sister and neice, and some other family. It was so wonderful! I was so emotional the whole couple of weeks before. More about that later. For now, enjoy the pics! He is now OFFICIALLY our son!!!!!!





Izaiah and his attorney looking at all Judge Missy's cool things


Everyone



Judge Missy-He is so great!

Soooooooooo happy!